Water & Ash markWater & Ash Burials

A captain-led ceremony at sea

Burials at sea, held without rush.

A licensed sea-burial voyage out of San Diego or Oceanside — with a Water & Ash facilitator beside the captain, so the family can be present to the moment, not the logistics.

USCG-LicensedEPA-CompliantSame-week scheduling, when needed
i.

What it is

A burial at sea is a real ceremony, performed in real water — with all of the law and none of the pageantry.

Burial at sea has been a recognized form of committal for as long as people have crossed water. Today it is governed in U.S. waters by the Environmental Protection Agency under the Marine Protection, Research, and Sanctuaries Act — and that is a good thing: the rules exist to make sure the ocean and the ceremony stay clean.

What we add is the part the regulations cannot. The pause. The reading. The way a family walks back to shore together when it is done.

Every voyage is captained personally by a USCG-licensed master, with a Water & Ash facilitator aboard whose only job is the family.

Two kinds of committal

  • i.Full-body burialA weighted, biodegradable shroud or vessel, three nautical miles offshore, in waters at least 600 feet deep.
  • ii.Cremated-remains scatteringAshes scattered over open water, returned to the sea — the most common, and the simplest path.
A shrouded committal dressed with flowers, resting on the vessel's board against a Pacific sunset.
A full-body committal, three nautical miles offshore
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The day itself

A typical voyage runs about three hours, dockside to dockside.

The pace is set by the family, not the boat. We have stayed at the committal point for forty minutes when that is what was needed.

00:00 · Dockside

Arrival

We meet you at the slip, walk you aboard, and orient everyone — restrooms, seating, what to expect.

00:20 · Departure

Out of harbor

The vessel makes way at idle through the channel. A quiet moment as the city falls away.

01:00 · On station

The ceremony

Engines ease, then idle. Readings, words, music — anything the family has prepared, or silence if that is the choice.

01:30 · Committal

The release

The captain holds station while the committal is made. We mark the GPS coordinates for the family.

03:00 · Return

Back to dock

A wide turn, a slow return. Most families ride the bow home in silence. We do not interrupt that.

iii.

Choose your committal

Two paths, both real, both held with the same care.

Pricing below is starting from. Final cost depends on the vessel, the day, and the size of the party. We will quote a flat number before you commit to anything.

Most chosen

Option A

Cremated remains scattering

Ashes returned to the sea over open water. The simplest path, and the one most families take. We can also include a biodegradable urn that floats briefly, then dissolves.

~ 3 hrsDock to dock
Up to 2 guestsAboard the vessel
3 nautical mi.Minimum offshore
Flowers / petalsIncluded
Starting from$2,222*
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Full-body

Option B

Full-body sea burial

A weighted, biodegradable shroud or vessel committed in deep water. Requires advance scheduling — typically two to three weeks — and EPA notification within thirty days of the burial.

~ 4 hrsDock to dock
Up to 2 guestsAboard the vessel
600+ ft depthEPA-required
EPA filingHandled by us
Starting from$6,500
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* Cremated-remains pricing is still being finalized. Full-body sea burial pricing is firm.

iv.

What's included

Everything you need for the day, and the things you only realize you need afterward.

i.

USCG-licensed captain

The same captain who runs your voyage owns the vessel. No subcontractors, no relief skippers.

ii.

Water & Ash facilitator

Aboard for every voyage. Their only job is your family — readings, music, pacing, the small things.

iii.

Insured vessel

Fully insured, USCG-inspected, equipped for ocean passage in any season.

iv.

EPA filing

Required within thirty days of a full-body burial. We handle the paperwork; you receive a copy.

v.

GPS coordinates

The exact latitude and longitude of the committal point, sent to the family in a printed certificate.

vi.

Flowers & petals

Loose petals or a wreath, depending on what you ask for. Brought aboard before you arrive.

vii.

Optional photography

A discreet photographer can be added on request. We do not photograph the committal itself unless asked.

viii.

Permit assistance

If your family is bringing remains in from out of state, we coordinate the paperwork on your behalf.

ix.

Aftercare

A short call a week later, and a card on the anniversary. Not a sales touch — a check-in.

A woven basket of crimson and amber roses, brought aboard for a committal.
Memorial flowers

By the law of the sea

Burial at sea in U.S. waters is regulated by the EPA — and we follow every line of it.

The Marine Protection, Research, and Sanctuaries Act sets the minimum distance, depth, and reporting requirements for sea burial. Our voyages exceed every requirement, and we file on your behalf.

3 nm
Minimum from shore
600 ft
Minimum water depth
30 d
Reporting window
100%
Biodegradable
v.

Common questions

A few of the things families ask first.

How far in advance should we book?

For ash scatterings, a few days is usually enough. For full-body burials, plan for two to three weeks — there is paperwork to file, and we want to choose a calm-water day. If circumstances need same-week scheduling, call us; we will make it work where we can.

Who can come aboard?

The vessel and the day determine the count — most of our voyages carry up to two guests aboard. Larger parties are possible on the larger boats. We will confirm capacity once we know which vessel suits the day.

What does the captain do, and what does the facilitator do?

The captain runs the boat — navigation, weather, the law of the sea. The Water & Ash facilitator runs the ceremony — readings, pacing, music, anything the family has asked for. Two roles, two people, one voyage.

Can a clergy member or celebrant join us?

Of course. We have welcomed priests, rabbis, imams, ministers, humanist celebrants, and quiet families with no clergy at all. Whatever the family has chosen, we hold the space.

What happens to the remains in a full-body burial?

The body is wrapped in a weighted, biodegradable shroud or placed in a biodegradable vessel and committed to deep water — three nautical miles offshore, a voyage of 90 to 120 minutes. The committal is a single, deliberate moment — not rushed, not staged.

What if the weather turns?

Captain's call. If the sea is unsafe, we postpone — at no cost to you — and re-schedule for the next workable day. We have never lost a ceremony to weather; we have moved a few.

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Begin when you are ready

A first conversation, with no obligation and no rush.

Call us, or send a short note. We will sit with you, learn what your person asked for, and only then suggest a path.

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